yesterday hving lunch w/ a frd....
we hv nt met quite sometimes, t4 we hv alot things to chit chat abt.
she asked me "r u independent?"
w/o hestiating, i replied NO.
she adv that "since im not independent and weak in the appearance, i shd go n find a partner to take care of, make more new frds, know more abt male frds."
a few days ago, i complained to my cousin abt my current job.
she sms me that "im the type of the gal who once hv the love, wont care abt the bread.
because i put love in the 1st place, t4 im still hurting, unable to get over it"
i called a frd, telling him that my colleague worried that i may nt be able to overcome the outside world stressful environment.
in the end i got "scolding" fm him.
he said that "known u for 3years, u still the same, always been bully by others. do read up more, widen your knowledge. hv confident n "fierce"on your interview, dont be scared. step out or else u will always inside the shell"
last fri nite, i stayed up late w/ my boss bcoz hv some discussion. he told me that "do hv confident on yourself. muz keep your mind thinking all the time. work hard is no use (hard work may nt recoganise or boss will nt know at all), u muz work smart. no point of staying in the same stage where ur values are the same as other"