during 1 of the lunch time, 2 of my dept colleagues and me hv a short chat.
all 3 of us decided not to get married and stay single.
even if we all get married, we wont want to have kids bcoz we found it troublesome and nt easy to take care of. im quite surprised that we all hv the same thinking.
marriage requires alot of responsibilites, attention and $$$ too. will tend to gain sometin and lose sumtin. mayb there's y nowadays, many ppl dun wan to get married or late marriage.
my frds r shocked with my decision. they think my mr rite has not appeared yet, t4 i hv tis idea.
but may not be true bcoz after hearing and seeing some of the marriage life, marriage can so scary and happiness time seem to be so short. environmt change, human beings change, feeling change, everytin change. no1 will neo when changing and notin is 4ever. althou there's an old phrase saying something like "dont expect 4ever, be hapi that u own b4". it will be so hurting when those tins u hv b4 is not longer yours.
i hv tis complicate thinking.
i dun care wat hapen in future, juz enjoy myself, do watever i wan when im still young.
bcoz of tat, it hurt more when tins r over and no longer is yours.
n yet, if i dun do wat i enjoy and dun do wat i like, life will as tasteless as water, as white as plain paper. but it get hurt when enjoy is over... ...